Virginia Beach, Virginia Family Law Lawyers

How is child custody decided?

Courts decide custody based on "the best interests of the child," which considers each parent's relationship with the child, stability, living situation, work schedule, history of domestic violence, and sometimes the child's preference (depending on age). Most courts favor arrangements that keep both parents involved unless there's a safety concern. An attorney helps you present the strongest case for the arrangement you want.

How is property divided in a divorce?

It depends on your state. "Community property" states (like California and Texas) generally split marital assets 50/50. "Equitable distribution" states (the majority) divide property fairly but not necessarily equally, considering factors like marriage length, each spouse's income and contributions, and future earning potential. Retirement accounts, businesses, and real estate are often the most contested assets.

How long does a divorce take?

Uncontested divorces where both parties agree on everything can be finalized in a few months. Contested divorces involving custody disputes, hidden assets, or complex property can take a year or more. Many states have mandatory waiting periods. The more you and your spouse can agree on before going to court, the faster and cheaper the process will be.

Can child support or custody orders be changed later?

Yes, but you need to show a "substantial change in circumstances" — like a major change in income, relocation, remarriage, or changes in the child's needs. You can't modify an order just because you're unhappy with it. The process requires filing a formal motion with the court, and an attorney can help you demonstrate why the change is warranted.

Do I need a prenuptial agreement?

A prenup isn't just for wealthy people. If either spouse has significant assets, debts, a business, children from a previous relationship, or an inheritance they want to protect, a prenup provides clarity and protection. It's much easier to agree on these terms when you're getting along than during a divorce. Both parties should have their own attorneys review the agreement.

What if my spouse is hiding assets during divorce?

Asset concealment is more common than people think. An experienced divorce attorney knows where to look — tax returns, business records, cryptocurrency accounts, transfers to friends or family, and unexplained changes in spending patterns. The discovery process allows your attorney to subpoena financial records. Courts penalize spouses who hide assets.

Should I move out of the house before filing for divorce?

Be careful. In some states, voluntarily leaving the family home can affect custody outcomes or your claim to the property. It can also be used to argue you "abandoned" the family. Talk to an attorney before making this decision. If domestic violence is a factor, your safety comes first — an attorney can help you get a protective order.

How is alimony or spousal support determined?

Courts consider the length of the marriage, each spouse's income and earning potential, standard of living during the marriage, age, health, and contributions as a homemaker or to the other spouse's career. Alimony isn't automatic — it's typically awarded when there's a significant income disparity and one spouse needs support to become self-sufficient.